Allison & Johnson Family Lawyers
 
 

Comparison to Litigation

"Litigation should be a last resort, not a knee-jerk reflex."

Irving S. Shapiro
Chairman, E.I. du Pont de Nemours

 

Litigation Process Descriptors

  • Parties in disputes often feel intimidated, fearful, anxious, powerless, out gunned, and not in control. The litigation does nothing to calk this uneasiness and, in fact, a common successful litigation tactic is to make the other side so uncomfortable they are coerced into settling.
  • Process focused on determining blame for problems.
  • Unpredictable results.
  • Things happen that you do not want to happen.
  • Unsafe atmosphere - subject to cross examination, depositions.
  • Public.
  • Inconvenient scheduling - court determines the parties' schedules.
  • Secretive - play hide the ball, mislead, and deceive the other side. Usually negotiate through lawyers.
  • Much more time and money spent getting ready for the trial that most likely will never occur. Little time spent on settlement. 95% of cases settle but 95% of legal fees are not spent on settlement efforts.
  • Legal expenses can become uncontrollable. Other side can force you to spend lots of money on activity you do not want to participate in - depositions, discovery, hearings.
  • Cannot just "try" litigation.

Collaborative Process Descriptors

  • Collaboration process affirmatively seeks to make both parties feel safe, respected, in control of their lives, and as comfortable as possible while working towards resolution - coercion is not part of the process.
  • Process focused on reaching solutions to problems.
  • Predictable results.
  • Nothing happens unless you agree to it.
  • Safe atmosphere - civil, dignified, respectful.
  • Private and confidential.
  • Schedules for meetings are by agreement.
  • Transparent process - same information available to both parties. Parties develop options for resolution in "four way" meetings.